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Author: britni danielle

7 Signs You’re In a Situationship, Not a Relationship

I don’t know about you, but I’ve definitely found myself in a situationship a time or two. It goes a little something like this: You meet someone and you quickly get caught up in how he makes you feel when you’re together, and soon, the questions arise. Is he seeing anyone else? What are we?  Am I his girl?  Are we exclusive?  Should I call him my boyfriend? While there’s an easy way to find out the answers to these questions–just ask–when it comes to matters of the heart, some folks just aren’t that logical, or brave. So, to save you some time,...

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For Girls Who Gracefully Take the L When Cursing Him Out Isn’t Enuff

Two months. Two glorious months was all we had before our time together was unexpectedly snuffed out by “a situation” from the past. I’d met [name redacted] on Tinder, of all places. I was vehemently against signing up for the app because, from what I could gather, it was all about late night creeping and Netflix & Chill. And while I don’t knock folks who like to get down like that, I was in the market for actual and factual dating. Still, I pushed through my apprehension–and ignored the guy who offered me meth–to continue swiping. Then I met him. We connected over...

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Every Woman Needs An Anti-Fuckboy Accountability Partner

Here’s a conversation I recently had with one of my girls. BTW, names have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent.  Her: “James* randomly texted me today and completely threw me off my game. Now I’m wondering how I should respond.” Me:  Her: “I knooow, but….” Me: “…he’s a fuckboy.” Her: “Yeah, but I still love him…” Me: Me: “DELETE DELETE DELETE.” Her: “I wish I could, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want to talk to him.” Me: “You can want to….just don’t.” Her: “That’s very easy to say, but that’s not how emotions work, B.” Me:...

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